Take Back Your Power - You Don't Have to Tolerate Abuse
Feb 02, 2020
EVERY client I have ever worked with who has had a chronic illness, has either had unresolved TRAUMA or ABUSE in their history. The result of this is a lack of healthy self-worth, self-esteem, self-confidence etc, plus a host of unhealthy beliefs about self, plus a host of unhealthy ways of looking after oneself, all of which lead to such a state of 'dis-ease' and disharmony inside the body that it has NO CHOICE BUT TO CREATE SYMPTOMS in its cries for help and change.
Emotional abuse is SUCH a big issue for SO many women (and men).
Every week I hear stories of how people tolerate unfair treatment or unacceptable behaviour from their partner, friends, colleagues, family, even adult children...
I hear how they are humiliated, belittled, put down, chastized, criticized...
I hear how afraid they are to stand up for themselves, speak their truth, say no.
It's heart-breaking to hear these stories, but I also know that the only way out is for the 'victim' to start making the changes, to start taking back their power.
This is a topic which is dear to my heart, having been on the end of emotional, verbal and physical abuse myself.
It took me a LONG time to understand what was happening when I was in an abusive relationship. I just didn't KNOW because I was so used to being treated badly. I didn't know what was NORMAL. I didn't know it could be different. And I certainly didn't know that the reason I had ATTRACTED myself to an abusive partner was because I had not healed an emotionally abusive childhood.
One of the problems is, abuse can create a lot of confusion in the 'victim'. It can send their mind into confusion and doubt over whether what is happening to them is 'real' or 'acceptable'.
Getting clarity on what abuse is and isn't is the first key to dealing with it.
Then learning exactly HOW AND WHAT we can do in a very practical way to stop people treating us unfairly is the next step.
If we don't learn to stand up for ourselves and put a stop to DISRESPECTFUL behaviour from others, it will create heaps of problems, including depression, anxiety, worry, and serious physical symptoms, because the BODY KNOWS that being treated unkindly is not RIGHT.
If we don't make the necessary changes our heart and Soul are asking us to make, we will continue to attract disrespectful bullies into our life, because the universe works through the law of attraction. If we are still holding traumatic memories inside our cells, this energy will automatically attract someone into our life which matches this energy. It's a universal law.
EVERY client I have ever worked with who has been experiencing a chronic illness has either had unresolved TRAUMA or ABUSE in their history. The result of this is a lack of healthy self-worth, self-esteem, self-confidence etc, plus a host of unhealthy beliefs about self, plus a host of unhealthy ways of looking after oneself, all of which lead to such a state of 'dis-ease' and disharmony inside the body that it has NO CHOICE BUT TO CREATE SYMPTOMS as it cries for help and change.
This is why one of the main focuses of how I help people is in the learning of how to TAKE BACK THEIR POWER.
If this is you, you CAN do this, but you will most likely need the right guidance and tools, otherwise you can be flailing around for years trying to change.
There is a science in how to put a stop to abuse, and I love teaching people that science.
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